Dating and marriage in north korea
According to followers of a popular Indonesian social movement, the country would be better off without dating.
Writer La Ode Munafar, 26, started Indonesia Tanpa Pacaran (Indonesia Without Courtship) nearly two years ago to encourage young Indonesians to skip dating and go straight to marriage.
For many women these days, it’s not “He’s just not that into you” that’s the problem.
It’s that “There aren’t enough of him.” So says Jon Birger, the author of a new book called “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game.” The book, which Birger describes as “the least romantic book ever written about dating,” uses demographics, statistics, game theory and other wonky techniques to shed light on the surprising and growing gap between the number of college-educated women and the number of college-educated men. That has led to a big demographic mismatch for people who want to date and marry others of the same educational level.
According to statistics from the research agency, South Korea’s total fertility rate, at 1.19, is the lowest it has ever been.
The rate is lower than that of other developed Asian countries: In 2014, Japan’s total fertility rate was 1.42, Singapore’s 1.25, and Hong Kong's 1.23.
Nothing, from introducing flexible work hours to increasing child care options, or even handing out cash incentives to willing parents, has worked.
Even the lucrative South Korean matchmaking industry, worth some US million, has not managed to encourage singles to get in the mood for love, marriage and babies.
But according to predictions by the country's National Assembly Research Service, it is only a matter of time before the streets are silenced.In fact, 35% of married women actually contacted their current partner first, serving as inspiration for women who are still on the fence when it comes to making the first move. ", basically confirming that yes, your future husband may be lost in the sea of generic messages that is your inbox.The majority of respondents who received the first message from their partner reported them mentioning something specific from their profile that caught their eye. At least give him until the second or third message to pique your interest before you write him off completely.Though these stories are somewhat sensationalist, child marriage is a big problem in Indonesia.Between 14 percent and 35 percent of Indonesian girls marry before age 18, depending on the province, according to UNICEF.